Medical science makes one fact very clear.
God never creates any human with born defects. His creation
is always the perfect and the cause of every defect that occurs is due to man
made mistakes.
Working on making a presentation for Million Death study
made me learn some very important aspects which I feel is to be shared with
everyone.
The second leading cause of death in India is SUICIDE.
India is ranked number one in Suicide rates.
And the cause of Suicide when it is analyzed, Financial problems
matter just 16% and in case of remaining 84% it is WOMEN
The research clearly shows that the primary cause for
Depression in wome which makes her saddist is -
The simulation and modification of Menstrual cycle among the
women especially very high in South India and Rajasthan.
The reason for this modification is the existing Social
Cultures in these regions of the Nation.
To understand it just let us Go through the Cultural History
of India.
All religions in the world is against disturbance of Natural
human cycles and anything you do should never disturb the natural cycle of
human beings.
Thousand of years back, Every religion strength relied on
numbers, and to make their community stronger they incorporated a beautiful
theory.
Whether it is Indian Puranas, Khuran or Bible it says the
same.
“Any Ovary Egg Produced in a women, should be fertilized. If
any Egg comes out of the body and if it touches the ground, then it means there
a severe crime is committed.
A Perfect Husband is the one who sees that all his Wife’s
eggs that are produced are fertilized.
A Women on an average produces 375 Ovary Egg in her lifetime
If you want to avoid the Egg from touching the ground, then
a women has to go in for approximately 16 to 20 Child births. That makes her
avoid the egg from touching the ground. (The number is 16 because during every
pregnancy there will be a stoppage of egg production for Sixteen Months)
Now what to do if accidentally a women egg touches the
ground?
Then she will has to be isolated from the family. She is
entangled in a curse till her bleedings stops and this led to the birth of a
new tradition where in women are treated as untouchables and has to keep away
from the society when they go through menstrual pregnancy,
I remember my days as a young child of Five to Six years. I
virtually saw my Mom bleeding. She was crying in Pain and agony and I was just
watching it helplessly. In the midnight, with no pad system used in those days,
I saw how she was illtreated and scolded for bleed marks on floor. I saw her agony, her helplessness and that
stands in my mind even today.
I was not even allowed to go to my mother. I just wanted to
be with her. But I was forcibly kept away from her and that pain and agony
still sits in my mind and it will never be wiped out in my life.
Hence from my younger days, though I am considered as
Adharmi I never encourage the tradition of isolating a mother from a child
during periods time. There are many fights in my own house and I had been
constantly told that by breaking this tradition I will give birth to a
handicapped child. But today though in my entire life span I have purposefully
broken this rule, I had three most healthy kids that too normal delivery with
no complications and were absolutely born with not even jaundice.
I never allow my wife to follow this ritual. I only allow
her to stay away from kitchen and the reason is simple. These days I know she
needs rest and her reasoning and decision making powers will be at a very low
during this period. A women with less reasoning power or low reflex should not
try to indulge in works that requires care and caution,
Now coming to the point of how this fact is related to
Suicide deaths is what I came to know by the recent data collected from Centre
for Global Health Research.
Now when you follow this ritual, especially in orthodox
families, they never want to see the women in the house going through period
times when there is some auspicious occasion going on in their house. The
solution though it sounds ridiculous they go in to take postponement tablets.
From my younger days I was very curious to know about what
was the tablet, my sister, my mother use to consume whenever we had Ganesha
festival, deepavali etc. I came to know about it only in the Nineth Standard.
Periods is a natural life cycle in every creature on this
universe. Every mammal goes through the cycle of periods. A women produces egg
for fertilization. The egg waits for around twelve days for fertilization and
when the fertilization doesn’t happen then what should be done with the egg? God
has created a wonderful mechanism in a women.
The Ovary egg stands in the uterus on a thin lining of its
wall. This lining of wall is produced by a hormone in the women called
Progesterone. In a normal cycle, exactly after around 300 Hours of Ovary egg
creation, Human body stops producing this hormone called Progesterone and this
weakens the ovary lining wall. It then gives up and the ovary ruptures along
with wall and comes out.
Just like undigested food is pushed out of human body in a
phased manner, this lining and the unfertilized egg is pushed out of the body
and this is a process that takes around three to seven days. This process is
what we call periods.
Now when our tradition says that women in periods should not
participate in family events, they naturally wants to avoid periods and the
result, change this cycle.
This has become such a common phase in Brahmin family that
the highest money that a women spends on her medicine in our orthodox family is
on postponement tablets. Without understanding its implications nor trying to know
the dangers of disturbing the god made menstrual cycle, they blindly get
Regestrone tablets.
But what actually happens when you take these tablets?
These tablets actually contains the Progesterone harmone. When
our body stops producing this hormone, the wall still remains intact for a few
more days because of this artificially fed harmone.
Now the first risk that comes with these tablets are that
the Medical institutions and Drug regulation board considers these tablets not
as a medicine, but as a consumer product just like a condom.
Remember, I-pill, Condom and Postponement tablets all three
comes under the same category of products. Hence the regulations imposted on
its manufacturing by the drug control is very limited.
Hence companies produce it with lesser precautions. Research
is carried out to make it more effective and with lesser logistics and never
ever they think about its long time implications.
The highest reason for Death among cancers in India is
breast cancer. Three out of four women will have a cancer growth which will
later be naturally destroyed by the body. But this power of the body to destroy
the cancer growth is totally lost with the use of these tablets. Hence if you
have any symptoms of cancer growth in breast, then the cancer becomes immune.
Second greatest complication comes at the age of forty. It
is when the menstrual cycle comes to an end.
Remember the two small DNA chromosomes that makes we the
humans carry a code which exactly determines how much Progesterone your body
should produce. This code once programmed during birth will never be altered.
But by consumption of repeated postponement tablets when the
menstrual cycle comes to an end, then the production of Progesterone will not
be stopped. This imbalance triggers so many internal reactions that leads to
Astriophorasis and above all it disturbs our nervous system and triggers our
brain with unwanted reactions.
Research clearly says that a husband will see a very violent
change in her wife thinking and behavior when the menstrual cycle comes to an
end. A women who always shows social concerns, who has stood as an optimist
suddenly turns pessimist. She loses interest and enthusiasm in life.
This triggers Deppression. They feel the world is bad. They
lose the passion in life. Above all the effect of non stoppage of Progesterone
leads to saddist thinking.
Whenever someone comes and appreciates her husband, a women
who always was proud of him, starts speaking that my husband is not what you
think. Don’t appreciate him so much. Do you know he had done this, done that. The
intention of her Is very clear. She wants to prove that he is not better than
her,.
Such women when they see their son and their Daugher in law
very happy and enjoying life, when they celebrate, they feel irritated. They
does not want anyone to laugh loudly. When you are enjoying they say, Stop
getting involved in this bhoga world. Do something for God.
Most of these women suddenly turn God saviors. A women for
whom husband and children are everything they suddenly turn into a fantasy
world .
They feel betrayed. They feel they were ill-treated. They always
want to create a negative current.
The study clearly shows that the main reason in the behavioral
change of women during menstrual stoppage is directly linked to the simulative
changes she has undergone during periods.
Data analysis clearly shows that these kinds of changes in
women happens more in orthodox families .
Shortly there will be a large scale campaigns that will be
started to create awareness among women about disturbing once period cycles.
Also if we see it ethically, God the supreme has created a
perfect human cycle, and when he has planned your period on a certain day, you
say God, Hey you are wrong, I don’t want to have periods on this day. Saying
you take man created unresearched some tablet, stop god’s process and then sit
in front of god and then act as though you are his most obedient disciple.
You have broken his cycle and disturbed some five hundred
processes in the body and then when you pray and ask him will he really listen
to your prayers. It is a total hypocratic thought.
My wife was advised by one of the greatest spiritual leader
that during periods, if you really want to be a part of a celebration, then lie
and cheat the man made society, instead if you consume period tablets and cheat
god, then your sin is much much greater.
My marriage date had fallen exactly on my wife period date.
She called me and told I want to go in for postpone tablets. I told never ever
play with natural cycles. She obeyed. I told her even if you fall into periods
on the muhurtham platform I will still love and will never let you down. However
xactly the next day evening of my marriage she fell into periods.
From that day till today she has never ever consumed these
tablets. Remember if you believe in god, and if you think he is supreme then
never ever alter any of his cycles or his creations for the sake of some
benefits from man made rituals and ceremonies.
Periods is a ritual that was misused by men to kill the
potential strength of women. If a women ejaculates ovum once in a month, a man
ejaculates sperm every 48 hours. He still remains involved with society with no
guilt or wrong doing feeling, then why should a women be projected as someone
who has cursed when she ejaculates ovary.
A women during her period time needs rest and above all a
very caring hand. A father should show extra love to her daughter and keep her
engaged giving his precious time for her during her periods time. A husband should
understand the back aches and the pain
she suffers in thighs due to ovary contraction during the first day of her
period. It is the day she needs your love attention and your magical touch of
care to make her overcome that pain.
A women will loose her reasoning power and it is very risky
to drive vehicles or do any action that requires reflex during these period
times. Avoid it. Foolish system we follow is we drop our wife everywhere during
her healthy period and when she is in periods we ask her to take vehicle on her
own as we are not supposed to touch her. It seems ridiculous .
However following of rituals is one’s personal belief and we
should never hurt their belief. But the only care that needs to be taken is
WHENEVER YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE BETWEEN MAN MADE CELEBRATIONS
AND GOD MADE PERIOD CYCLES. ALWAYS GIVE PREFERENCE TO GOD. STOP USING POSTPONEMENT
TABLETS. IT WILL MAKE YOU A VERY BAD MOTHER FOR A TEENAGE CHILD AND ABOVE ALL A HORRIBLE
UNTOLERABLE MOTHER IN LAW
